| LIVING
ABROAD Difference makes the world go round: Every
culture, every neighborhood, every family, has a different
way of doing things. Keeping an open mind and a positive
attitude about those differences is crucial to your study
abroad experience. Try new things: Be spontaneous! Be
adventurous! Don't be afraid to experiment. This is an
opportunity to eat things you have never eaten and see
places you've never seen. Be open and friendly: Remember
that happiness is catching. If you are positive and outgoing
people will respond to you. Keep in mind that you are both
an academic student and a student of the world. Learn from
and about the new people you meet.
Heather O’Brien, Camille Booth, Robin Warfel (ISA)
Seville, Spain (Spring 2006)

What is culture shock?
Culture shock is a type of homesickness. The term refers to
the stresses and strains which accumulate from being forced
to meet one's everyday needs (e.g. language, climate, food,
cleanliness, companionship) in unfamiliar ways. Some
symptoms of culture shock are: frustration, mental fatigue,
disorientation about how to work with and relate to others,
boredom, lack of motivation, and sometimes physical
discomfort. When you leave home and all the things that are
familiar, you encounter many new and confusing situations.
These situations naturally create stress; the reaction to
this stress is called "culture shock."
Jennifer Tennille (Arcadia): New Zealand (Fall 2007)

Some of the differences between life at home and life in a
new place are obvious:
• language
• climate
• religion
• food
• educational system
• absence of family and close ties
Other differences are not as obvious:
• how students relate to teachers
• styles of communication
• personal space
These differences cause feelings of uncertainty and anxiety:
• feeling isolated or alone
• sleeping too much or tiring easily
• finding it difficult to sleep
• suffering body pains, especially in the head, neck, back
and stomach
• wanting to return home
• avoiding contact with host nationals and only wanting to
spend time with those from you own culture
• anxiety
Sigi-Blu Zweiban (Arcadia): Goldsmiths (Fall 2006)
All
of these uncertainties . . . and more . . . are confusing.
You may also feel that you don't know what to do in certain
situations. Probably you did not think about these things at
home because you knew what to do and what to expect. You
also knew how other people acted and thought. In other
words, you understood "the rules" and "the signs." Life was
easier at home. Your body and your mind may react in unusual
ways to the stress and confusion of living in a new culture.
Difficulties occur in various situations: where to sit on
the bus, how and when to tip, when to accept and refuse
invitations, etc. It is very important to understand that
these reactions are normal. You are not ill. It is a
temporary situation for people who are adjusting to life in
a new environment and it is inevitable to some degree.
States of Cultural Adjustment
Amanda Hope (SIT): Cape Town, South Africa (Fall 2007)

• Initial Excitement: Everything seems fabulous and
exciting. You've been thinking about this experience for so
long and you're finally here. This could last from a week to
a full month.
• Grumpy, Irritable and perhaps Hostile: During this
period you start to experience the cultural differences and
you can begin to focus on these differences. It is easy
during this stage to blow small things out of proportion.
• Beginning to Adjust: Now you are beginning to
understand how to respond in certain situations and you
begin to pickup on the cultural clues. You start to feel
less isolated and become more comfortable in the culture.
• Adapting to the culture or bi-culturalism-During
this period you find yourself enjoying a number of aspects
of this new culture. In fact when you return you will find
that you miss a number of these new ways of doing things.
What are some tips to combat culture shock and make the
most of my time abroad?
Andrew Guss (Arcadia): Athens, Greece (Spring 2006)

Practice makes perfect: Attempting to speak the local
language will bring you closer to the people of your host
country and is bound to open up opportunities.
Take the initiative: Making friends can initially be
one of the most difficult aspects of living abroad.
Eventually, it will also be one of the most rewarding.
Returned students suggest getting involved any way possible:
volunteering, joining clubs or sports, teaching English.
Be prepared to be an Ambassador: For many people you
meet abroad, you will be "the American". Students in other
countries are more politically aware, as a rule, than
students in the United States. They may involve you in
heated political discussions.
How to Combat Re-entry Shock
What can you do to prepare to return home? Being aware of
the reentry process and following
some advice from those who have already returned can
facilitate your reentry. The following list is compiled from
many sources, but all of the tips come from returnees who
have offered these ideas in the hope of making your initial
reentry easier for you and for those at home. They are
offered to you as things to consider as you prepare to
return from study abroad. First, say goodbye. Then:
1. Mentally prepare for the adjustment process: The
more you consider your alternatives, think about what is to
come, and know about why returning home is both similar to
and different from going abroad, the easier the transition
will be. Anticipating is useful. As one psychologist put it,
"Worrying helps.” However, obsessing does not, so be
prepared -not paranoid!
2. Allow yourself time: Reentry is a process that
will take time, just as adjusting to a new foreign culture
required a period of acculturation. Give yourself time to
relax and reflect upon what is going on around you, how you
are reacting to it, and what you might like to change. Give
yourself permission to ease into the transition.
3. Understand that the familiar will seem different:
You will have changed, home has changed, and you will be
seeing familiar people, places, and behaviors from new
perspectives. Some things will seem strange, perhaps even
unsettling. Expect to have some new emotional and
psychological responses to being home. Everyone does.
4.
There will be some "cultural catching up" to do: Some
linguistic, social, political, economic, entertainment, and
current event topics may be unfamiliar to you. New academic
programs or regulations, slang expressions, popular culture
references, recent events, and even major social changes may
have emerged since you left. You may have some learning to
do about your own culture. The longer you have been gone,
the more you may have to discover, and the more noticeable
it will be to others that you are not culturally fully
up-to-speed. Approach this challenge in the same way you
approached culture learning overseas, with a sense of humor
and an open mind.
Katie Hunter (SBC-JYF): Paris, France (Fall 2003)
5. Reserve judgments: Just as you had to keep an open
mind when first encountering the culture of a new foreign
country, try to resist the natural impulse to make snap
decisions and judgments about people and behaviors once back
home. Mood swings are common at first, and your most
valuable and valid analysis of events is likely to take
place after allowing some time for thorough reflection. Most
returnees report gaining major insights into themselves and
their home countries during reentry, but only after allowing
a sufficient period of time for reflection and
self-analysis.
6. Respond thoughtfully and slowly: Quick answers and
impulsive reactions often characterize returnees.
Frustration, disorientation, and boredom in the returnee can
lead to behavior that is incomprehensible to family and
friends. Take some time to rehearse what you want to say and
how you will respond to predictable questions and
situations; prepare to greet those that are less predictable
with a calm, thoughtful approach.

If you find yourself being overly defensive or aggressive in
responding to those around you, it is probably time to take
a deep breath and relax. It is tempting when asked for the
twentieth time, “How was London?” to sarcastically reply,
“Very British!” but the momentary satisfaction will do
little to open a real communication channel. As always,
thinking before answering is a good strategy.
7. Cultivate sensitivity: Showing an interest in what
others have been doing while you have been on your adventure
overseas is a sure way to reestablish rapport. Much
annoyance with returnees results from the perception that
returnees are so anxious to tell their stories and share
their experiences that they are not interested in what
happened to those who stayed at home. This is ironic because
one of the most common frustrations reported by returnees is
that those at home only ask superficial questions (e.g., So
how was it?) and want short answers. Returnees see this as a
lack of opportunity to express their feelings fully. In such
circumstances, being as good a listener as a talker is a key
ingredient in mutual sharing and you may need to practice
those skills upon return.
8. Beware of comparisons: Making comparisons between
cultures and nations is natural, particularly after
residence abroad. However, a person must be careful not to
be seen as too critical of home or too lavish in praise of
things foreign. A balance of good and bad features is
probably more accurate and certainly less threatening to
others. The tendency to become an "instant expert" is to be
avoided at all costs.
9.
Remain flexible: Keeping as many options open as
possible is an essential aspect of a successful return home.
Attempting to re-socialize totally into old patterns and
networks can be difficult, but remaining aloof is isolating
and counterproductive. What you want to achieve is a balance
between resuming and maintaining earlier patterns and
enhancing your social and intellectual life with new friends
and interests.
10. Seek support networks: There are lots of people
back home who have gone through their own reentry process
and both understand and empathize with a returnee's
concerns. Returnees may find it useful to seek out people
with international living experience such as academic
faculty, exchange students, Peace Corps, volunteers,
international development staff, diplomatic or military
personnel, church mission officials, and those doing
business internationally. University study abroad and
international student offices may also be places where
returnees can find support and empathy as they go through
the reentry process.
Adapted from materials originally developed by Dr. Bruce La
Brack, School of International Studies, University of the
Pacific for the Institute of International Education, San
Francisco.
Work/Volunteer Abroad
Students who studied abroad for a semester at Whittier
frequently look for ways to get back abroad, whether it be
for a week, a summer, semester or year. There are several
ways, aside for a mere vacation to make this happy. There
are many resources out there to help students find graduate
schools abroad, volunteer opportunities as well as work
abroad:
• www.bunac.org: Work,
volunteer, teach abroad
•
www.transitionsabroad.com: work, graduate school and
living
• www.idealist.org:
Volunteer, work or intern abroad
•
www.icemenlo.com/index.shtml: work and intern abroad
•
www.crossculturalsolutions.org: 1-12 week programs
abroad
•
www.interexchange.org: internships and work abroad
Lesley Cole (Syracuse): Bern, Switzerland (Fall 2006)
Leah Sigler (CC-CS): Corduba, Argentina (Fall 2007)

Anthony Prechtl (UI): Reykjavík, Iceland
(Fall 2006)

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